The Nine Key Points to Sharing a New Activity with Your Child


Throughout my journey as a parent and Montessori educator, I have repeatedly seen how simple activities, offered at the right time and in the right way, can have a huge impact on a child’s behavior. Children are fascinated by real objects and they will ‘work’ with them to develop different abilities. With this in mind, I’ve created a series of videos of some of my favorite simple and easy activities, which you can share with your child at home or on the road. Not every activity will interest every child, but by watching your child at play you will start to learn what works best for her. Below are 9 key points to keep in mind when sharing a new activity with your child.

  1. Choose an age-appropriate* activity for your child
  2. Use a few words to introduce the activity
  3. Give the proper language for each item used
  4. Sit opposite your dominant hand so you don’t block your child’s vision of the activity (if you’re right-handed, sit to the right of the child; lefties sit on the left)
  5. Slow down your movement, so your child can analyze what you’re doing
  6. Do not talk when actually showing the activity
  7. Only show your child a new activity when he is rested and well-fed
  8. Do not interrupt or correct once your child is engaged
  9. Enjoy sharing these moments with your child

*The appropriate age will depend on the child’s individual development and abilities as well as interest. These are all approximate ages; it is essential to follow your child’s needs by learning to observe them.

Do you struggle to come up with engaging activities for your child or feel uncertain about how to properly set-up your home? Let’s Talk to get some suggestions and answers!

4 thoughts on “The Nine Key Points to Sharing a New Activity with Your Child”

  • Karen Vaughan(née Vaughan) says:

    Great to be able to watch a presentation if you are not in a classroom. Thanks

  • Karen says:

    Baby is two and half month old , she can not lift her head up. Although we tried to giver her tummy time she just lying in the bed. On the other hand, she can eat her hand and thumb now but she still can not grasp or hit the bell that I prepared for her. What should I do to help her develop those skills? I am a new pageant I am really worried that I am not good enough To teacher her during her growing.

    • Jeanne-Marie Paynel says:

      Karen, Two and half month is still quite young and her attention span is limited. Her grasping is only starting to develop. Has she started to observe her own hands yet? If you continue to be concerned it’s a good idea to have her seen by a professional.

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